Celebrate Life!!

This past week I had the good fortune 

to celebrate my Father's 90th Birthday.

 Now, my father is not in great health. Dementia has taken away his mind and memories. Years of working construction have left his knees unable to carry his weight. He is still living in the home he built for our family 50+ years ago, but only with live-in help. He didn't really understand that we were there to celebrate HIM. But to see his eyes light up when the candles were lit and being asked to blow out his candles, was priceless.

We kept the afternoon simple. Just immediate family and a few neighbors that he sees regularly. Just enough to make the day different than the rest. One neighbor even entertained us with a harmonica concert!  Simple dinner of food he likes, and is able to eat, lasagna and salad, Sparkling cider for a toast, and, of course, chocolate cake. 

It's those moments that we make someone feel special that make a difference in our lives. Find ways to celebrate your loved ones. A new job, a great grade, first day of school, friends moving back into town, new neighbors, maybe just to show that you care, etc. Just knowing that someone noticed you! Don't stress over it, just do it! Invite a few people. Make it a potluck. Use disposable tableware, pitchers of lemonade or iced tea. Spend time together. 

Celebrate Life!!